01 - Preheat oven to 400°F. Butter a medium gratin or baking dish and set aside.
02 - In a small saucepan over medium heat, melt 2 tbsp butter. Sauté the finely chopped shallot and minced garlic for 2 to 3 minutes until soft and fragrant.
03 - Stir in heavy cream, whole milk, softened cream cheese, and Dijon mustard. Cook while stirring until the cream cheese is fully melted and the mixture is smooth.
04 - Reduce heat to low. Gradually add shredded Gruyère and sharp cheddar cheese, stirring until completely melted and incorporated. Season with paprika, cayenne pepper, sea salt, and black pepper.
05 - Gently fold in the jumbo lump crab meat, chopped parsley, and chives, taking care not to break apart the crab lumps. Remove from heat.
06 - Spoon the crab mixture evenly into the prepared baking dish, spreading into an even layer.
07 - In a small bowl, combine panko breadcrumbs, melted butter, and grated Parmesan cheese. Sprinkle the mixture evenly over the surface of the crab gratin.
08 - Bake for 20 to 25 minutes until hot and bubbly with a golden brown crust on top.
09 - Let rest for 5 minutes before serving. Garnish with additional fresh parsley and chives if desired.